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Love & Marriage: 6 Things Women Should Get During Oral Sex

Women LOVE oral sex. It is one of the most pleasurable sexual experiences for a woman, as well as one of the best, if not the best way, for a woman to achieve orgasm during sex. Some women will literally fall in love with a man because of his oral sex skills. And I’ve known plenty of women that have even held onto a trifling man for dear life because he was so great at giving head.

For the women that want and get great oral sex, I congratulate you. And for the women who aren’t getting it, I sympathize with you. Maybe you just don’t know exactly what you want or maybe your partner sucks (and not in a good way). But lucky you, I’m going to share a list of things that you should be getting during oral sex- things that will most definitely help you achieve orgasm. You may not have even realized that you actually wanted these things, but when you get them, you’ll be saying ”Thanks Dr. Phoenyx!”And remember this- a good man and great lover already knows these things, and if he doesn’t then he’s at least willing and ready to learn.

Oral sex is a wonderful thing. And if oral sex is your thing, then you should be getting it- and getting it good. Here are 6 things women should get during oral sex:

1. Foreplay

I have a saying: “The man who uses foreplay, is the man who can get it all day.” And if your man is great at oral sex then he knows the importance of foreplay. Most often the best oral sex foreplay is non-sexual and achieved through connection like kissing and looking into intensely into a woman’s eyes. Women are like ovens, and it takes a little time to warm us up. And if your man is great at oral sex, then he knows that if he wants to have the best “slice of pie” then he’s going to have to preheat the oven first.

2. Enthusiasm and compliments

Women are also ego-driven in the bedroom. And lots of us women, even the most confident, are shy and/or insecure about at least one thing on our bodies. That’s why it’s such an incredible turn-on to have a partner that will kiss and caress our lady parts while saying things like “damn you’re so sexy!” So every woman should have a partner that is enthusiastic about what he sees, as well as a partner that enjoys telling you how beautiful you are while he’s doing his thing.

3. Attention to other areas

Great oral sex involves stimulating and playing with other areas besides the clitoris and vagina. So have your man caress other parts of your body too. Two great places to have your man pay attention to are the inner part of your thighs and your breasts. Did you know that some women are even able climax by just having their nipples stimulated? It’s true. So the next time he’s down on you, have him lick and gently nibble your inner thighs. And also let him play with your nipples. Or better yet, you can even play with your own nipples while he’s doing his thing. Men are very visual and it will definitely be something sexy for him to look up at from down below ;)

4. Head and hands

During oral sex, you will want hands as well as “head.” So if you haven’t tired it already, have your man use his wet finger(s) and penetrate you with them while he’s performing oral sex. In addition to the erogenous zones surrounding your clitoris, a woman has another extremely sensitive area at the inner roof of her vagina- the G-stop. And you’re gonna want something to stimulate this area because his “other head” is too far away. So to achieve this feat, have your man take two fingers and slide them inside while giving you head. Have him go slowly at first, then a little faster. Rhythm is key. And trust me, the experience will be divine!

5. A rodeo rider

When getting close to the point of orgasm, sometimes things become so intense that you may involuntarily buck or run away. And that’s fine- it’s a good sign. Because great oral sex is about having a partner that knows how to drive to the point of climax. But that’s not the end. It’s also about having a partner that knows how to hold on and hang in there for the duration. So if you’re a woman that digs in or trusts her pelvis before orgasm, then you want your man to know how to go with you, move with you, and not fight you. You need a rodeo rider that will hang on and not let go.

And here’s an added bonus! If both of you play your cards right, then you can have the added bliss of achieving multiple orgasms. How? Well, a woman stays excited for a full hour after she’s had an orgasm. And one woman was even clocked at 56 orgasms at one sitting! Now how much fun would it be trying to top that record ;)

6. A moment to bask

What do I mean by “a moment to bask?” I mean you want oral sex where a man doesn’t immediately get up and ask for his after you’ve climaxed. You want oral sex where you’ll experience the full rise, climax, and cool down. The best lovers know that women are not like men. So the best lovers will “keep making love to you” after you’ve climaxed by doing things like talking to you, caressing you, and cuddling. This is also what you want. And this is what every woman should be getting during oral sex.

Now a couple questions:

Ladies, what has been your overall experience with oral sex?

In your opinion, what separates the bad lovers, from the good lovers, from the GREAT lovers?

April 29th, 2011 – By Dr. Phoenyx Austin

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