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Nigeria: Sex With My Wife is Agonising, Man Tells Court

Abeokuta, Nigeria, from the top of Olumo Rock

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A Lagos businessman, Albert Abadomeh, stunned the Agege Grade ‘A’ Customary Court recently when he declared that he dreads having sex with his wife because each time he tries to make love to her, he suffers terrible pains.

He told the court that he made the discovery shortly after his marriage to Bintu.

“On our wedding night, I decided to make love to her but I couldn’t penetrate and I later discovered that her private part was too tight to take me in.

“Every attempt I make towards penetrating during lovemaking is very difficult and my penis comes out covered with blood. I stopped having sex with her in order not to cause her and myself pains that normally last for days,” he said.

The petitioner also told the court that when he discovered that his wife was not menstruating and ovulating like other normal women, he became so concerned that he decided to see a gynaecologist in a bid to finding a lasting solution.

“Bintu’s plight gave me so much concern that I went to visit a specialist doctor who confirmed to me that my wife has three fibroids in her system and if care is not taken, she might not be able to give me children.

He further told the court that they went as far as Abeokuta for surgical operation on the fibroids and it was a success. He however informed the court that the surgery became a mistake as things became worse as he could not still make love to his wife.

“When I complained, my wife started telling people that I belong to an occultic group and that my mother is a witch.”

Further in his testimony, he alleged that his wife once confirmed to him that she had aborted twice for her boyfriend in the past.

Therefore, he urged the court to dissolve the marriage because Bintu has been causing him so much troubles and it is causing discord between him and his children from his previous marriage.

However, Bintu in her defense told the court that all her husband told the court were lies adding that her private part was tight because she abstained from sex. She informed the court that when she was younger, she resolved to be a reverend sister and the resolve made her stay away from sex adding that her prolonged abstinence is responsible for the tightness of her private part.

Moreover, she informed the court that immediately after their marriage, her husband became a stranger and he started exhibiting strange behaviours which has been causing lot of problems in their marriage.

The respondent informed the court that during their courtship days, she told her husband that it wouldn’t be easy living with his grown up children but he assured her then that there would not be any problem because the children have their own apartment and wouldn’t interfere in their relationship.

She also alleged that her stepson who is 36years old tried to abuse her sexually but when she reported to her husband, the issue was handled with kid gloves adding that since then, she has had no peace of mind.

“I was busy in the kitchen one day when my 36-year-old stepson held me from behind and wanted to seduce me; I resisted him but the matter was lightly handled by his father and he has been accusing me of trying to cause discord between him and his children.”

Bintu however pleaded with the court not to grant the prayers of her husband because she is still passionately in love with him and that she is deliberately making efforts at amicable settlement.

The court president, Emmanuel Shokunle, adjourned the matter for further hearing.

Dolapo Tunde-Muraina | 11 May 2011| Daily Independent (Lagos)

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